| As your child approaches teen age –around | | | | teen as your friend and respect his opinion whenever |
| 12-13 years old- you’ll experience some | | | | you discuss something. This also shows that you pay |
| changes in him. He will probably be out of the house | | | | attention to him and consider him as important.5. |
| more often and wants to keep his privacy from you. | | | | Encourage your teen by doing his interests and talent |
| Other times, he may not be listening to you nor doing | | | | – Most teens like to try new things. Let yours |
| what you ask him.Many parents in the world find the | | | | choose what he desires, though you don’t |
| same troubles when dealing with their teens. Hope you | | | | agree with it because, for example, it can endanger |
| don’t get them. But if you do, don’t | | | | him. Giving him support is the best you can do, while |
| worry! Keep on reading to get solutions.Just like when | | | | you keep monitoring that the new activity is safe for |
| you were a teenager, you wanted to spend times with | | | | him. Moreover, this idea is a good way of teaching |
| your peers rather than with your parents or family, | | | | your teen on how to be responsible with things he |
| right? Your teen feels the same way, too. Making his | | | | does.6. Do things together – This one is surely a |
| own decision is another important thing for him besides | | | | great opportunity for you to improve your relationship |
| privacy.Now, do you think your teen is out of control | | | | with your teen. Why? ‘Cause you probably |
| and never wants to listen to you?Don’t give up! | | | | haven’t had much time to spend with him. |
| Of course you can help yourself deal with your teen. | | | | Arrange agenda for the whole month. In each week, |
| The best way to do it is to always strengthen your | | | | make an interesting plan for you and him and get the |
| relationship with him. But how?Here are the solutions:1. | | | | pleasant results at the end of it.Still about the last point |
| Talk with him more – It’s better if you | | | | above, think of exciting activities you both can do |
| start the conversation. It can be just “How was | | | | together. For example, in the first week, play video |
| your day, buddy?” Try to discuss many things | | | | games together on Saturday, while on the next day |
| instead of interrogate him. Find interesting topics, such | | | | both of you can go bowling or swimming at the |
| as sport, entertainment, friends, and school experience | | | | beach.Later, in the following weeks, set up enjoyable |
| to make it relaxing.2. Listen to him – If he reveals | | | | weekends by doing these: having breakfast at a |
| his criticism to you, listen to him and ask what he | | | | popular coffee shop which makes your teen’s |
| expects you to do. Talk about this wisely, not | | | | favorite food and beverage, going fishing, going to the |
| emotionally. It’s good for him to be able to | | | | movie, camping, or visiting a college where your teen |
| express the feeling.3. Set rules for him – Your | | | | looks forward to join in the future.Conclusively, warm |
| teen needs to recognize what is and isn’t | | | | and positive communication without underestimating |
| acceptable and what the consequences of | | | | your teen is a key to successful relationship between |
| misbehavior are. Therefore you should set, or precisely, | | | | the two of you. Clearly it won’t work at once. |
| negotiate some rules with your teen to keep him on | | | | Try the tips progressively and enjoy your time being a |
| track.4. Consider his point of view – Regard your | | | | parent of a teenager. |