What You Must Know When Seeking Help For Domestic Abuse

The Battered Women's Movement and Clinicalbattered women.
Psychology are as far apart as the North and SouthI have since learned that this is understandably so,
Pole. Yet, many people outside of these circlesespecially for women residing in domestic violence
disciplines believe domestic abuse treatment-andshelters. It is estimated that roughly 95% of women
advocacy-are sub-specialties of the practice ofgoing through the abuse shelter system will be
psychology. Not at all so!"certified" (i.e. blessed with a psychiatric diagnosis) by
After I fled from the danger I lived in Chicago, Ivirtue of their navigating the mental health care
retreated into a life of solace and wrote All But Mysystem-while in route to safety-as a survivor of
Soul: Abuse Beyond Control. Creating that publicationdomestic violence.
was the most amazing experience of my life-right upThis truly disturbed me, as a practicing psychologist
there with the birth of a child. It was my fourth child.and domestic abuse survivor. Even more disturbing
With the enthusiasm of a child, I approached individualswas the fact that I could find little to no domestic
in the domestic violence arena, eager to share what Iviolence curricula offered in psychological training.
had learned and produced in the manuscript. Initially, IIn no way am I suggesting that one not seek the
was not received well and couldn't understand why,services of domestic abuse advocacy; to the contrary.
until an individual from the inner circle of the BatteredI strongly believe in the work of domestic abuse
Women's Movement shared the inside politics with me.advocates. However, I recognize that when utilizing
"You will have a hard time breaking into this line ofdomestic abuse advocacy, one must be mindful of the
work," she said, "because you are a psychologist."importance of also securing the expertise of a mental
Funny thing is I thought this was my asset, until shehealth professional, authentically knowledgeable in
helped me realized it was my liability among battereddomestic violence.
women.The front line treatment for domestic violence and the
She explained that historically the psychologists wereactual practice of professional psychology are truly as
used in re-victimizing survivors of domestic abuse atfar apart as the automotive industry and the practice
the bequest of their perpetrators. And over the years,of dentistry. I vowed to commit myself to helping
actually decades, they became the enemies ofbridge this huge knowledge and service gap.