The Good of Natural Parenting

Raising your kids by your gut feeling and instincts, thatand other such basic matters.
what many people consider natural parenting. This isNot too long ago, only a few decades, natural
the way millions of parents all over the globe raise theirparenting was the de facto parenting technique that
children. However, there are other types of parentingnobody questioned. Today when parents attend
too. There is guided parenting, where parents learnparenting workshops, make unending appointments
how to parent through books, workshops, research,with the pediatrician, keep researching on every
journals and articles. Usually such people are walkingaspect of bringing up children, parenting loses its charm,
encyclopedias on matters regarding parenting --warmth and spontaneity.
however, in real life; they are as puzzled by theIn today's society natural parenting has definitely been
subject as any other parent.relegated to second place. Parents today pay more
Every animal on this planet has parenting instincts. Lookattention to what the latest research says about how
around you -- whether it is the spider, or the cat, orto raise children, instead of letting the auto-pilot take
your pet dog or the fish in your fish -- every speciesover. Unfortunately, the results are not so good when
have their own natural parenting methods. Humansnatural parenting takes the back seat. Children need to
raise their young in their particular manner. And if left tobe free and happy, and a growing movement is
the gut feeling, they can manage pretty well, too.beginning to see how natural parenting can create the
However, there is too much information floating aroundenvironment for children to naturally prosper.
in so many forms, which confuses parents and makeIt is very difficult for a natural bond to form between
them flounder in this basic task.parent and child when the child is raised according to
As an example, it is completely natural to breastfeedsomeone else's idea of what is proper and correct.
an infant. This basic parenting task usually does notThe best way of parenting is to trust your instinct to
require any teaching or instruction. However, there aretell you what is right and what is wrong. Trusting your
so many advertisements, articles, and TV shows ongut is the essence of natural parenting, and even
the "right way" to do it, that the mother feels lost eventhough you'll still make mistakes, know that your kids
on this basic matter. The same applies to moreappreciate the fact that you're just human.
complex matters such as nutrition, how to feed a child,