What Is Single Parenting?

Single parenting, quite obviously, is the practice offar cry from the realities of single parenting for most
nurturing and raising children without having anotherof the people who experience it. Single parent
adult equally involved in the process. But the realities ofadoptions by such celebrities as Angelina Jolie in her
"single parenting" vary from culture to culture.pre-Brad Pitt life, Madonna, and Rosie O'Donnell have
Single parenting can be the result of a voluntarygiven exposure to the practice, and may have even
decision. Women who choose to have a child byincreased attempts to adopt orphaned children from
artificial insemination, or beome pregnant outside ofthe poorer parts of the world. But they do little to
marriage, unmarried persons who adopt children, orreflect the real struggles which single parenting can
those parents who are widowed, divorced, or simplybring.
deserted by their spouses are all single parents. ButSingle parenting, more often than not, means financial
the circumstances of their single parenting can havestress, a parent who has to make an extra effort to
as much, if not more, of an effect on their children askeep the emotional bonds and communication with his
their efforts at single parenting do.or her children strong, and older siblings often having to
Those who engage in single parenting out of choicecarry a larger share of the household responsibilities
are more likely to have planned for the costs of raisingthan his or her friends from two parent households.
children, and had time to establish the network of socialSingle parenting can even mean that the parent places
and emotional support which will make their singlean inappropriate amount of reliance on young children,
parenting efforts more of a community affair.involving them in discussions of family finances and
Having a support network is even more essential toother troubles which would normally be shared only
those attempting single parenting not by choice butwith a spouse.
from necessity; very young single parents, or thoseSingle parenting, especially when it has not been
with limited education and income opportunities arechosen, is one of the biggest challenges someone can
especially vulnerable to the stresses of single parenting.face and if it means anything, it means built a
If an extended family is available to step in and take onfoundation of appropriate communication and trust with
the child care duties from time to time, not only thechildren when they are young. Work done successfully
children, but the single parent, will have a much easierthen will pay off in huge dividends when they are old
time.enough to step in and shoulder some of the family
Single parenting, as portrayed in the media today, is aresponsibilities.