Teaching Children to Keep Their Personal Power and Gain Peace

I get a weekly email update from my son's preschoolbeing emotionally upset.
about what they've covered in class. This week alongI used to give away my personal power often by
with a note about a play they're preparing, there wasbecoming upset, angry, and emotional at the slightest
this:provocation. It took me many years to learn how to
"We had a talk this week about personal power andkeep my inner peace when I faced even the little
how we can keep our power or choose to give itthings in life that can be challenges. I'm not perfect at it,
away. We discussed ways we give our power awaybut I keep getting better. How much easier it would
(by letting others upset us) and ways we can keephave been to practice this concept if someone had
our power (by sitting in peace)."taught it to me at 4 years old. What a head start I
Wow. Can you imagine learning that in school at 4would have had!
years old? Or how about in eighth grade or even highI wish that schools everywhere would teach this
school? Could it have changed your life?concept at an early age. It's probably as important as
No one taught me that at an early age. My parentslearning to spell 'cat' or memorizing the names of state
didn't and still don't have that kind of knowledge, andcapitols. You can look up the name of a state capitol in
inner personal power and inner peace were neveran instant, but it takes far longer to cultivate a true
discussed in school--all the way through law school. Isense of inner peace.
had to learn this lesson of keeping my personal powerIf you want to teach your children how to maintain their
by staying peaceful for myself as an adult.personal power and develop an inner sense of peace,
Personal power is not the strength of your opinions,the best way to start is by example. Work on
how well you can argue and fight, or how right youdeveloping these traits for yourself and the knowledge
are. Personal power comes from being able towill easily flow from you to your children. If you need
maintain a peaceful mind and heart in all conditions,help in this area, please visit the Recommended
whether they appear to be good or bad. AndReading section on my website, or browse the
maintaining your inner peace does not mean you don'tSelf-Help section under Health, Mind & Body at
have convictions or can't use your personal power toAmazon. The resources are out there to help you give
produce change. It just means that you can hold thoseyour children the gift of peacefulness.
convictions and use your power without the cloud of