Single Parenting Tip - How to Become Parent of the Year

Before you know it, the "Holiday Season" is here andis final and become "Parent of the Year?"
during this all important season, you can becomeAs a single parent, you can save a lot of heart ache
"Parent of the Year." As a single parent how are youand disappointment if you think of the holiday as "A
preparing for this important season. Some of you lookDay" instead of "The Day."
back with an almost child like happiness enjoying theFor instance, if your Ex has the children for
season as much if not more than your kids. A seasonThanksgiving, take another day with your children and
where the kids get to have both parents for the day.make a Turkey dinner together, and the fun part, it
Having both Parents for the day is the perfect day fortakes all day. And, it can be any day, like the Saturday
the kids. Yes, this might work in the early stages ofafter Thanksgiving. Let the kids make the mashed
your divorce, but will it still be the same way a fewpotatoes and you will really appreciate just how great
years later?they taste even if they are lumpy. What you are doing
What happens when you and your Ex are both in ais making a day a family day. For me -- it's my single
serious relationship. Do you tell the man/woman ofDad family.
your dreams that you can't make ThanksgivingThe next big holiday, of course, is Christmas. Do you
because you have to spend it with the kids and thewant to be "Parent of the Year?"
Ex. After all, isn't everything you do for the kids? ThisHere is an amazing tip to be "Parent of the Year." Just
might cause your new and serious relationship to takelet the Ex have the children on Christmas. Then, listen
a turn in the wrong direction.to what they got and ask them what they really
On the other hand, if every holiday is consideredwanted to get but didn't get. Go out on December
"Family Day" and all of a sudden there's a change in26th when those fabulous sales start and everything is
the game, you will break the hearts of your children.reduced 50% and get the gifts they really wanted but
Not too mention it could cause immense psychologicaldidn't get. If you're on good terms with the Ex, do it
problems changing things.together and save on those discounted gifts.
How do you handle the Holidays now that the divorce