Real Help For Troubled Teens Doesn't Dress in Camoflauge

If you developed your perspective on helping troubledchange without even understanding what's happening
teens based on television programming, you'd think thatthere. The fact that these programs don't even
the only thing you'd need to positively transform a kid'sconsider root causes and fundamental sources of
life would be a screaming drill sergeant in to screamdifficulties is reason enough to rule them out.
and holler until the child was sufficiently frightened intoThese programs also make the mistake of
changing his or her life around.underestimating the kids involved. The fact that a teen
It's regular fodder for talk shows, news shows and justis experiencing difficulties doesn't make him or her
about any other programming that addresses troubledstupid. They quickly realize that they can survive the
teens. The cameras show up at special "boot camps"boot camp experience without unnecessary hassle by
designed to reform kids' attitudes, mindsets andtemporarily playing by its rules. When the camp ends,
behavior. These aggressive, tough programs look likethey have no problem shifting back to their old
such an easy solution. A little screaming, a little yelling, abehaviors.
little fear and a sense of toughness is all it takes toThese programs may occasionally produce results. In
change a life! They also connect with the part of usmost cases, however, they produce very little more
that's legitimately angry with the behavior of troubledthan temporary gains. They're failure to address the
teenagers. We find some catharsis thanks to thesource of the problem really undercuts their ability to
intimidating drill sergeant.change lives. That's the reason why they should be
The problem with these programs isn't that they'rerejected.
mean or too tough. Well, at least that isn't the mostThe people who run these programs are well-intended.
important problem. The real issue with these attemptsThey believe in the simplistic behavioralist thinking that
to change the behavior and attitude of troubled teensunderlies the efforts, too. Regardless of intention or
is the simple fact that they don't work.motivation, however, the programs just don't produce
That's because they don't even try ot get at thereal results. Don't believe everything you see on TV.
cause of the aberrant behavior. Instead of workingReal help for struggling kids doesn't wear camoflauge
from the inside out, the boot camp approach worksand it isn't based on scaring anyone.
from the outside, hoping to produce some inner