Raising Children Who Care - Teaching Charity and Compassion

There seems to be a generalized opinion that kids andothers while demonstrating to your children that doing
teens in America are selfish and spoiled. While thisgood things for the sake of doing good things can give
might be true of some kids, it doesn't have to be trueyou a feeling of joy and satisfaction.
of yours. By setting a good example, talking aboutSimple Projects Naturally you'll want to match your
people, animals and things that need help, exposingcaring project with the age of your child or children. For
your child to charitable opportunities and stressing thekids who haven't started school yet, consider activities
importance of community, you can raise children whothat involve picking things up or sorting things out.
are empathetic, giving and kind.Recycling projects are good for preschool age
The Most Important Role Model - You It is nearlychildren.
impossible - not to mention not fair - to expect yourSix- through nine-year olds enjoy collecting things for
child to be caring and charitable if you are not actingdonation, picking up litter at parks and beaches, and
that way yourself. On the other hand if your childrenmaking arts and crafts for worthy causes.
see you donating canned goods to a food drive,Once kids get older they can do more planning and
clothes to a thrift shop and toys to needy children atpromoting events. Volunteering at an animal shelter,
Christmas time, they are more likely to think of doingafter school clubs or a senior center can be a rich and
good deeds as the "norm". They'll see volunteering asrewarding experience for teens and tweens alike.
just something that should be done and giving as theThere are many websites online that can match your
only way to be.children with age-appropriate volunteer opportunities.
Talk About Worthy The opportunity for charity isCaring DIY Style Eventually your child will bring up an
everywhere. Depending on the age of your childrenissue or cause that touches them. At this point it is
you can talk about those who need our help - be itimportant, even vital, that you encourage your child to
abandoned pets, the environment or families living indo something to help while you support in any way
poverty. If your children are in their teens, you canthat you can.
watch news programs and international reportsAll over the news are stories of kids from six to
showing how desperate the needs of many are in thiscollege that have collected pennies for clean drinking
world. Caring doesn't have to be done in big ways only.water in Africa, schools for children in impoverished
Little acts of kindness make a large difference andcountries, a neighborhood playground, protecting the
you should be sure to let your children know that.rainforests and on and on. Everywhere kids are doing
Holding the door open for someone, picking upbig things and the one thing they all have in common is
something someone dropped for them, smiling atsomeone believed in them and supported them. Be
someone who looks like they are having a bad day,that someone for your children.
these are all tiny ways you can improve the lives of