Positive Parenting - Mom, Your Gut Feeling is Correct - Permission to Trust Your Instincts

Moms, your gut feelings are correct and you havefollowing your gut feelings will protect you from verbal,
permission to trust your instincts. As a Personal Safetymental, emotional and physical attack.
Trainer since 1999, I know the most important thing forWhy Do We Disregard Our Born-In Safety Feature?
anyone's safety is to acknowledge, trust and followWomen have been raised to be polite, get along and
their gut feelings. These are instincts we were bornavoid making waves. This is dangerous because our
with and their job is to keep us alive. We have themgut feeling may tell us:
about every person, place and situation in our lives.- To leave a situation as soon as possible yet we stay
Gut feelings will protect you and your children muchto avoid making anyone feel uncomfortable.
better than you can.- Our parents are unsuitable babysitters but we allow it
Moms are extra tuned-in to their instincts because theirbecause we don't want the emotional baggage that
fundamental job is to protect their young. Thesecomes with denying them the "privilege" of watching
instincts are often referred to as "women's intuition."their grandchildren.
If you think the creepy feeling you get about the- There is something fishy about a teacher or authority
all-too-friendly neighbor being near your child is justfigure (or our spouse) when they are around our child
your imagination you are disregarding the very instinctsyet the majority of moms will chalk the feeling up to
you were gifted with to protect your child.being overprotective.
Your Job As "Mom"Ninety-five percent of all types of attack can be
Your job as a mom is to use your instincts to keepavoided by acknowledging, trusting and following gut
you alive and healthy to care for your children. Thisfeelings.
means your safety comes before theirs just like theMom, your gut feeling is correct and you have
oxygen mask speech on an airplane. Trusting andpermission to trust your instincts.