| Good parents believe that people are good. What do | | | | honestly and see justice; they are tolerant because |
| they mean by good? What exactly do good parents | | | | they approach other people honestly as equal; they |
| look for in people? | | | | are committed because they are honest to the words |
| Good people means kind and honest people. When | | | | they give; intelligent - because they know the |
| parents want to raise good children they mean kind | | | | difference between honesty and dishonesty, between |
| and honest children. Why exactly these two words? | | | | good and bad. |
| Some people list values as: appreciating, grateful, | | | | The list of qualities, which people use to describe what |
| caring, compassionate, courteous, forgiving, listening, | | | | they mean by good can be endless. However there |
| loving, patient, sacrificing, tolerant, peaceful, humble, | | | | are only two groups, kindness (or love), which is a |
| committed, respectful, intelligent, fair, and just. Each of | | | | function of people's hearts, and honesty (or |
| these words has some relation to kind and honest, in | | | | conscience), which is a function of people's intelligence, |
| one way or another these words describe a person | | | | the ability to discern between good and bad. |
| as the person is either kind or honest. | | | | The reason these old-fashioned qualities are not |
| For example, people are caring and compassionate | | | | popular in conventional parenting vocabulary is that |
| because they are kind and can imagine another | | | | they require parents to have those qualities |
| person's feelings and pain. People listen to others | | | | themselves. Here is the complete secret of good |
| because they are kind enough to be attentive to | | | | parents: they themselves are kind and honest, and |
| another person's needs. People are grateful for the | | | | they raise great children. They don't consider kindness |
| goodness, which comes from someone in their lives, | | | | and honesty as a human weakness. They believe in |
| and they are kind because they know that goodness. | | | | love and conscience. |
| People are fair because they evaluate situations | | | | |