| We all know that not all parents are created equal. | | | | marriage and before deciding to have children. Always |
| Some are good parents and some are bad parents. | | | | ask yourself first. What kind of parent do I want to |
| But good and bad parenting are results of both | | | | be? What kind of a leader do I want to be for my |
| conscious and unconscious choices. Why so? That's | | | | child? Do I want he or she to go through some of the |
| because good parents made it their choice to learn | | | | unpleasant circumstances I was born into? If I am my |
| beneficial ways and methods in parenting. Perhaps | | | | child, what kind of family do I want to be born into? |
| they have a good upbringing as well. However, does | | | | With these questions, it will bring light to what sort of a |
| that mean bad parents are bad by their own choice? | | | | parent you desire to become. |
| Nothing can be further from the truth. Bad parents do | | | | After knowing what you want, it is still impossible to |
| also feel that they can do better and often times, they | | | | break the mirror as you do not know how to do it. this |
| too want to be loved and adored by their children. | | | | is the time you consult your 6 best friends on earth. |
| Often times, their inability to make the transition in | | | | Namely: Why, Who, How, What, When and Where. |
| becoming a better parent is because they feel | | | | For example, if your situation is your own bad temper, |
| overwhelmed by their personal situations. | | | | then ask the following questions: |
| One of the major things that causes bad parenting is | | | | 1) Why do I want to change and eliminate my bad |
| bad parenting. I know that sounds a bit odd but read | | | | temper? |
| carefully. Imagine a child growing up in a poorly | | | | 2) Who do I seek help from to deal with my temper |
| managed family. I don't mean poor as in destitute but | | | | problems? |
| as in poor methods of parenting. Their children will learn | | | | 3) How can I get the most benefit from the people I |
| to become the parents they so despise. When they | | | | seek help from? |
| are young, they were already being programmed to | | | | 4) What techniques should I apply to make myself |
| become the parents they so dislike. Therefore, when | | | | calm down during a temper? |
| they grow up, they too become the clone of their own | | | | 5) When to apply the best technique for temper |
| parents. A total MIRROR IMAGE. Which is why, in | | | | control for the best results? |
| some cases, breaking that mirror is simply a must. | | | | 6) Where can I find more resources related to my |
| Now how do you do that? Well, here are ways to go | | | | problem? |
| about breaking that mirror. This is best done before | | | | |