Parenting - How the 'Family Unit' Has Changed

The 'family unit' has very much changed over the lastFathers are entitled to two weeks paternity leave
few decades and is now unrecognisable from thedirectly after the mother has given birth. Again the
start of the century. The mother no longer stays atamounts they are entitled to vary. Some companies
home and looks after the children. Fathers no longerwill allow fathers two weeks paid leave whilst others
spend all their time out working providing for the familywill implement the statutory paternity pay of again
and who is to say that the normal family has a mumaround £120 per week. Unless you have been saving
and a dad? Working mothers are the norm nowadaysthese amounts may leave you considerably short. Due
with most females holding full and part time jobs. Thisto these short comings in the maternity benefits,
is due to either financial circumstances or being theirfemales can find themselves rushing back to work
own choice. Nurseries, childminders or other familywhen they would rather be at home with their child
members help look after the children whilst the parentsmaking themselves unwell in the process. If this
are at work. This in itself is very costly and can placehappens do not be afraid to speak to your GP who
additional strain on the family's finances.may sign you off work until you feel better. Most
All of this is helped along with the work placecompanies may not like this however you are entitles
embracing these changing and implementing flexibleto do it. The health of you and your child is paramount.
working in the form of term time working, compressedIt is important to get the financial side of things correct
hours or the ability to work from home. This preventsas this will affect how you bring up your child. When
the employer from losing some of their highly skilledconsidering returning to work, look at all the options
staff but also ensures the staff member is happy andavailable. If necessary reduce the amount of hours
content in the workplace which has various benefits toworked if the cost of childcare providers is beyond
the employer. When you decide to start a family it isyour reach. There are voucher schemes set up in
important to ensure that you have some savingsmost large organisations where the tax and national
which can help buy the larger items that are requiredinsurance element of the cost of providing childcare
or will supplement your income when taking maternityare deducted at source hence saving you over £50
leave. If this is not possible as money is very tight thenper month on costs of £200.
it is important that you budget and plan as ahead asChildminders are usually cheaper than nurseries but all
much as possible.factors have to be considered when choosing the
The laws regarding maternity leave allow you to havebest option. Family members may be keen to help at
up to one year off work with statutory maternity paythe beginning but can leave you in the lurch at
being paid. However this is only in the regions of £120important times. Look at all the options and do not rush
per week and is taxable. If your income is substantiallyinto making any important decisions. Some nurseries
higher than this then this government allowance willhave waiting lists but you may not know what you
hardly assist in the paying of bills and thewant to do until after the birth so it is important to look
housekeeping! It is important for you to know howat other alternatives. If your child care is sorted and
much your company will pay you when you are onyour financial situation is in good health then this will
maternity leave. Some companies pay full or at leastensure that you will have some of the key skills to
90% of pay until the child is three months thenensure 'good parenting'.
statutory maternity pay kicks in.