How to Handle Difficult Behavior of 2-3 Year Old Children

At the age of two to three years is when childrenIf you punishments, or time-outs this will be harder on
really start learning about being independent, theiryou then it will on the child because you will want to
favorite words become "no" and "mine" they like tocave in and give everything you have taken away
think that they can do anything they want and if youfrom the child. If you return anything you have taken
believe them to think other that is where the problemfrom the toddler before the lesson is learned he or she
comes in. Have you heard of the terrible two's? Thewill not see your actions as serious and will continue
terrible twos can be a difficult time for parentsnormal behavior as if nothing has happened.
because the children are now starting to associateYou want to make sure your child knows who the
more with children their own age, they have no senseadult is and what his or her role is as a child otherwise
of fear so they believe they are in charge of even theyou will have a major problem getting them started in
parents. The "tantrums" become very difficult to dealdaycare or preschool. Use a majority of time spent
with, your entire home needs to be toddler proofedwith your child providing learning activities such as
and the children are very attached to the people whoreading, drawing, providing educational toys, or allowing
have been spending more time with them where asthem to help you prepare lunch or dinner. This will give
they will look at older individuals as a two or three yearthe child something to occupy his or her time, as well
old like them.as get into less "time out" worthy situations.
The "two and three year old children stage" is the timeDo you want to learn exactly how to eliminate your
you should really start teaching about right and wrong..child's out-of-control and defiant behavior without using
You can stay calm with your child and simply leveragePunishments, Time-Outs, Behavioral Plans, or
all of the material things that your child wants (i.e. toys,Rewards?
games, anything electronic).