| If you are a parent, you probably know what I mean | | | | as to scare the child to death so that he must not go |
| when I ask if you are scared about raising children | | | | out of the house for the rest of his life. I admit that |
| today. When children are small, they are with you all | | | | maybe that is not the good way to raise your child and |
| the time and by keeping an eye on them, you do not | | | | educate him about life. |
| need to worry. But after a while, when they begin to | | | | Than I think that, there is no need for him to know |
| be more and more on their own, we start thinking | | | | about things like that because he is too small but what |
| about more serious staff. | | | | if he is too open toward people and that he is not |
| People, media, everywhere we turn our heads there | | | | careful enough. All those thoughts can go on and on |
| are stories about drugs, kidnapping children and using | | | | forever but in reality, you need to educate your child |
| them for horrible things, murders and after all these, we | | | | wisely about life. |
| are expected to encourage our children to be | | | | As I mentioned in some of my previous articles, |
| independent and to lead a normal social life. But what if | | | | balance is really important in things like that. Children |
| parents are too frightened? | | | | should be informed about horrible things that are part |
| When my child is ten minutes late, I am starting | | | | of our life and should know about certain possible |
| panicking. It is a mild version of panic but still it is a panic. | | | | scenarios that could happen to him, but in moderation. |
| And he is only nine years old and he is always | | | | Child should not be scared but again, some amount of |
| somewhere close to the house. I am wondering what I | | | | fear is good because they will have boundaries in life. |
| will do when he becomes teenager and when he | | | | Plenty of love and understanding, a lot of talking |
| really starts going out with friends and the rest that | | | | between parents and children and plenty of support |
| goes with that period. | | | | can help big deal in making your child mentally strong |
| Sometimes I think it would be a good idea to tell him | | | | person that you will be able to trust about making a |
| about all these terrible things that are unavoidable part | | | | good decisions. |
| of our reality but maybe I will create a contra effect | | | | |