Effective Parenting - Manipulating Time

Many stay at home mums find themselves swampedboth your days. So meet challenges with a smile,
in a never ending battle to fit the daily schedule into thebecause when all is said and done YOU are master of
allocated 24 hours in a day. Still others seem like theyyour day and not the list.
could conquer Mount Everest, do the housework andSecret Number 3 - Mountain Climbers are Prepared.
present a five course meal every night. How do theIn these homes you will often find frozen meals to
"mountain climbers" do it? What is the basiccope with fall out on the bad days. There is often a list
difference? How do they cope with intrusions andof quick cook meals which can be whipped up in next
interruptions to their day? There is a secret toto no time. Along with this they keep a pantry of basic
accomplishing all that a woman needs to achieve anditems necessary for many of these dishes. Of course
not work around the clock to do it. In fact there area little creativity here doesn't go astray either. It can't
several. We will look at some of them here.be wrong to occasionally declare it "feral day" and
Secret Number One - The Mountain Climbers have aresort to fish and chips served on the paper it comes
List.wrapped in. "Feral Day" means no knives and forks
It really is worth the time to sit with a coffee and makeeither. The kids will love you for that one and the best
out a daily list. If you are feeling inundated and usuallypart is there are no dishes afterward.
start the day running take my word for it, you willSecret Number Four - Mountain Climbers are Positive
definitely achieve more if you slow down a little andAbout their Accomplishments.
write down what you would like to achieve each day.The mountain climbers as we have been calling them
Now look at that list and mark out which things takelook at their lists at the end of a busy day. They see
the highest priority e.g. teaching your little one to makechores done and chores undone. Their secret is that
the bed. Then order the list in order of priority afterthey end their day looking at all the things they did
that.achieve and relishing the thought of all the hurdles they
Prioritizing in this way means that you are more able toovercame. What isn't done is not that important. It can
cope with interruptions to your ideal schedule. Let'sgo on the list again another day. When you look at
face it how many days really go according to the planyour list do the same. If your day started perfectly and
entirely?erupted into total chaos look for the times you gained
Secret Number 2 - Mountain Climbers Welcomecontrol, the aspects of the day where you feel you
Intrusions.actually salvaged a little order. You may have simply
They see every day as a new adventure. Hiccups inovercome a situation in a creative and unusual way.
your ideal scheduling can present some interestingThat alone made this day worth celebrating.
challenges to your creativity. Many women who pop inIf this is to be your first day with a list celebrate
unexpectedly feel very comfortable folding theyourself. You are now on the way to joining the
washing with you or putting on the kettle while youmountain climbers. Don't feel defeated if you are not
finish a chore. An unexpected trip to the school forsuccessful immediately. Mountain Climbers train long
example can be a great chance for you to visit aand hard to achieve. Just keep going and you will most
friend who lives nearby. You don't have to stay for thecertainly succeed. Never give up.
day but a pleasant hour with her can really brighten