Child Discipline - Do Children Even Want It?

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If you've tried bribing punishing negotiating and evenCould this be?  Maybe in fairy tales but not in the
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how these parents stopped the bad behavior onceworld is flat and that you can fall over the edge we
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As one of seven children in my family and with yearsabout our amazing and beautiful world and learn how
of child care and a degree in child development behindto live in it.  Only then can we be truly free.  Free to
me I just knew that after pregnancy my problemsbelieve the truth of cause and effect and natural laws
would be over.  Ha!  What a joke.  One of our firstand not to let ourselves feel that they aren't fair or are
challenges was dealing with our daughter's incessantrestricting.
night wakings and demands for feeding.  After a few 
days I realized there were a lot of answers I did notThe fact is that our children don't only need structure
have and we headed off to a bookstore for someand discipline they actually want it. The book we
guidance in the form of literature.bought on sleep offered a suggestion that we wrap
 our daughter tightly in a blanket to help her fall asleep
Besides a book on helping babies to sleep we spottedfaster.  It worked!  She didn't hate being restricted
a little book on discipline that we thought might beshe was finally able to relax without trying to figure out
interesting.  We brought our purchases home andwhat to do with her hands!  She felt cozy and secure
took a nap while the baby was still sleeping in her carand restful.  She needed help and we helped her.
seat. And she was happier.  I love seeing pictures of my
 kids when they are babies wrapped up like a cute little
It wasn't until a few days later that my husband and Iburrito with that peaceful sleeping face.  It reminds me
broke into the book on discipline reading it out loud. Atthat children really do come into this world in need of
first we were excited to glean any importantprotection comfort and to be shown how to be
knowledge we could from the book but it didn't takecomfortable and happy here.  This is what discipline is
long for us to realize that this book was not what weall about!
were looking for.  At all.  After that we just read it 
for laughs.In parenting discipline should not be the main goal but
 we must realize that when applied wisely and with
What was so funny about the book?  The entirerespect to the child's agency and right to make
premise was that a child should not be 'stifled' in theirmistakes at times - it can become great way to get to
growth and development by rules and boundaries.  Athe actual goal which is self-discipline - a quality that
healthy creative and happy child came from anseems to be getting  more and more scarce these
environment where he was allowed to do what hedays.
liked was 'free' and encouraged in everything he did.