| How does "happy family" sound right now? | | | | say "Time will make her change, soon she'll not be a |
| Well it probably sounds far from reality. I know the bad | | | | kid anymore and things will get much better" but that's |
| children behavior routine: tantrums, defiant behavior, | | | | an illusion. It can get worse. That's reality. But in this |
| tears, screaming, no time for yourself, for your | | | | reality, you can make that change happen because |
| husband/wife, stress... the list never ends. | | | | people like you and I, parents, therapists, worked on the |
| It's hard to accept we need help because as parents, | | | | issue before us and believe me or not, this is priceless, |
| we think it should be "natural" to be good parents. Well | | | | because our own life and our kid's are priceless. |
| no, it's definitely not that easy to raise kids because | | | | I'd doing this because I want to bring a message of |
| understanding children is something we've lost as | | | | hope to all the people who, like me, have been |
| adults. Do you remember what you were feeling and | | | | struggling with their kids' behavior for too long. Now I |
| thinking at age 7? | | | | know things can change. |
| "Am I a bad parent?". Just stop asking. That's not the | | | | Which parenting method should I choose? |
| point because there is not just one way of parenting. | | | | Choosing a parenting method shouldn't be complicated |
| Your kid is unique and you're trying your best to make | | | | but many exist and it can be hard to choose, |
| him feel happy and loved. But HOW is another issue! | | | | especially because each method is presented and |
| We're not asked to know psychology or to study a | | | | explained by their author on a long website page and |
| manual to avoid bad children behavior when we | | | | you can only figure out if it's appropriate for your |
| become parents so we act based on what we know | | | | situation when you're done reading everything! |
| You see? Not your fault. | | | | Also, it's important to stay aware that bad children |
| BUT what is sure is that bad children behavior can be | | | | behavior is something that is lived differently by each |
| stopped. And if you don't change anything in how you | | | | family and the different methods are not meant for the |
| communicate with your child, NOTHING is going to | | | | same kind of children. So even if somebody else might |
| change. And it might get worse as your child grows up. | | | | have the solution you need to stop your child's |
| That's what worried me and pushed me to make | | | | behavior problems, you're the one who knows your |
| significant changes in my way of parenting. I used to | | | | child, his habits, tantrums, words... |