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Article #433: Teaching Children

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Teaching Children they try to figure it out.
"You can't do that, you'll give your baby Concreteness: How do you make an abstract
shaken baby syndrome." My mom then went idea easy to remember? As adults we have
into a fifteen minutes lecture on how a difficult time understanding abstract
tossing my baby in the air was damaging ideas, just imagine how difficult it must
my kid. Not wanting to permanently damage be for a child to understand. When we
my kid I toned down my playing with her. teach with something physical that we can
My wife was extremely glad to see that see, feel and touch then it is easier to
her baby wasn't flying through the air. remember. When teaching numbers to
In order to stop me completely, my wife children it is often easier to use blocks
asked the doctor if it caused shaken baby to teach them how to add or subtract.
syndrome. Much to her dismay the doctor Credibility: How do you get your children
informed her that there was no reason to to believe your ideas? Luckily, most
fear. With this great news my baby can children naturally believe their
again touch our ceiling. If you look on parents. It's not until they reach the
the internet, most sites will state that dreaded teens where they start to think
it will damage your kid. How do stories that they know better than their parents.
like these spread so easily while the This is the time when it is most critical
important ones die? to make your ideas credible. The Heaths
Chip and Dan Heath book "Made To Stick" show that vivid detail add a level of
explains how a parent can help make the credibility that otherwise wouldn't
important ideas stick. One of the main endorse your story.
tasks of a parent is passing on important Emotional: Why do a lot of mothers
information that we have learned as believe that tossing their kids in the
adults. Knowing how to teach our kids air is going to damage their child? Is it
will greatly help our ability to based on facts or emotion? I'm extremely
communicate effectively with our impressed how much my wife sacrifices for
children. "Made To Stick" discusses six our child. I can understand why she is a
ideas that will make your teachings a little protective of her child. Stories
"succes". that play on her emotion as a mother will
Simplicity: Make your ideas simple! That stick compared to one that just give cold
doesn't mean that you can only teach hard facts.
simple concepts. It does mean that you Stories: Can any one doubt the power of a
should only teach one concept at a time. story! To this day, I love hearing
"If you say three things you say nothing stories of my dad flying helicopter
at all." Children have a great desire to missions in the navy. Some of the best
learn new things. If it is muddled with children's books use stories to portray a
several ideas then they won't remember message. Why not use the same tactic when
any of them. teach our children?
Unexpectedness: Have you ever watched a We live in an informational era. The
bad movie to the end just to see how it amount of information that is available
turns out? The Heath brothers explain how to kids today is amazing and scary. Being
our brains hate the idea of a knowledge able to instill correct ideas that will
gap. This is why we watch a bad movie to provide a guide through our kids lives is
the end or stay up late to see how the on extremely important task as a parent.
book ends. Creating a knowledge gap for That is why it is important to learn how
you children will help them want to to make ideas stick. I recommend that
understand ideas. Try moving a piece of every one read "Made to Stick".
metal with a hidden magnet and watch as






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