| Despite the fact that their own ratings systems found | | | | complains of his lack of a brain, the Cowardly Lion |
| the | | | | discusses his lack of bravery, or the Tin Man wishes |
| material appropriate only for adults, the motion picture, | | | | he had |
| music, and video game industries practice "pervasive | | | | a heart, your child learns what intelligence, bravery, |
| and | | | | and |
| aggressive marketing" of violent movies, music, and | | | | love are, and why they're so important. Dorothy |
| electronic games to children. - Federal Trade | | | | tirelessly |
| Commission | | | | tries to find her way home, and in doing so surrounds |
| finding regarding child entertainmentThe values | | | | herself with new friends who work together to |
| depicted on TV and movie screens are a far cry | | | | overcome |
| from the | | | | their weaknesses and harness their strengths. Even |
| values you want your children exposed to in their | | | | though |
| formative | | | | your child is engrossed in the story, the concepts of |
| years. For example, the average American child will | | | | family, courage, cooperation, home, and love are |
| have | | | | made |
| watched 100,000 acts of televised violence, including | | | | clear.When you look at the values presented in |
| 8,000 | | | | the media, it becomes clear that positive character |
| depictions of murder, by the time he or she finishes | | | | traits |
| the | | | | are poorly defined for children. What one child learns |
| sixth grade. In a typical American home, the TV set is | | | | about bravery and loyalty from watching two bank |
| on | | | | robbers in |
| for over seven hours each day, and the average child | | | | a kid movie is much different than what another child |
| spends | | | | learns |
| more time watching that TV than they do in school, or | | | | about bravery and loyalty through reading about or |
| doing | | | | watching |
| any other activity besides sleeping. And, while your | | | | Winnie the Pooh helping a friend out of a jam.As |
| children are glued to the tube watching so-called child | | | | parents, combating the negative influence of media by |
| entertainment, they will see between 1,000 and 2,000 | | | | |
| television ads promoting alcohol every year.It's | | | | filtering the content to which our children are exposed |
| difficult to control parental outrage in the midst of that | | | | - |
| kind of media influence. How do you teach your child | | | | such as looking at a movie rental review - may not be |
| the | | | | |
| concepts and character traits that translate into better | | | | enough. Even if our children are an exception to the |
| | | | national average - over six hours of daily exposure to |
| learning habits at school, better behavior at home, and | | | | the |
| better citizenship in the world? How do you define | | | | media - it's safe to assume that their peers have |
| loyalty | | | | internalized negative media messages and will |
| to a five-year-old? How to you teach a four-year-old | | | | influence our |
| about | | | | children. To counteract negative media and peer |
| bravery and respect? And how do you explain | | | | influences, |
| love?These aren't simple words that can be taught to | | | | we must take charge of our children's character |
| your child | | | | education. |
| by rote. They're complex concepts that your child | | | | That's not easy, given that our active lives and hectic |
| needs to | | | | schedules leave little time for reviewing and selecting |
| know, understand, and adopt at an early age if they're | | | | appropriate reading and viewing material for our |
| to | | | | children.Still, you should do what you can to guide |
| succeed in life.The key to teaching children | | | | your family toward materials that reinforce values that |
| sophisticated character traits - such as courage, | | | | you |
| loyalty, | | | | hold dear. Evaluate the content of each children's |
| justice, respect, hope, honesty and love - is | | | | book, |
| character-based education. The heart of | | | | television show, and movie rental review for positive |
| character-based | | | | and |
| education is guiding your children toward TV shows, | | | | negative examples of the following ten traits: |
| kid | | | | self-discipline, compassion, responsibility, friendship, |
| movie, and books that reflect positive values. While | | | | work, courage, perseverance, honesty, loyalty, and |
| you | | | | faith. |
| may not be able to give your child the words that | | | | Also, look for negative behavioral influences, such as |
| explain | | | | violence, profanity, nudity, sexual content, scary |
| diversity, you can exert and control parental influence | | | | elements, |
| by | | | | and the use of drugs, alcohol, and tobacco. Then, |
| giving him or her any Winnie the Pooh book, which | | | | make your |
| demonstrates that theme in ways a child can easily | | | | selections according to the messages that each book, |
| understand. Pooh Bear also interprets the concept of | | | | |
| family | | | | television show, or movie sends your children.Brent |
| and the value of friendship.Thomas the Tank | | | | Sitton is the founder of |
| Engine teaches lessons about cooperation, sharing, | | | | DiscoveryJourney |
| and the | | | | has a variety of tools available to parents to help |
| value of hard work. Your child may not realize that | | | | counter the effects |
| they're | | | | of media violence. Discovery Journey |
| being taught a lesson while reading about or watching | | | | has compiled a Kid Movies |
| Thomas and his friends, but by the end of the book or | | | | list containing violence-free children's movies. |
| TV | | | | Each |
| show, they will have learned a complex concept - and | | | | movie rental review includes a listing of positive |
| been | | | | character traits |
| entertained in the process.For older readers, The | | | | and a listing of negative behaviors, along with a |
| Wizard of Oz follows a similar theme. When the | | | | Character Score that |
| Scarecrow | | | | helps parents select appropriate child entertainment. |