| Children in today's society seem to be much more | | | | the struggle it once was. Parents have become more |
| pampered and less responsible than they were a few | | | | lenient and loving than their predecessors would have |
| decades ago. They also seemed to have lost much of | | | | dreamed of being. Every child enjoys playing with toys |
| the value system that most of us took for granted | | | | and receiving a quality education. Many experts stress |
| growing up. By examining the roles of children in the | | | | that parents should allow their children to thoroughly |
| past, we may be able to trace the source of the | | | | enjoy their childhood as a vital step to them becoming |
| problems that we are having with today's troubled | | | | healthy and happy adults. Due to this attitude of child |
| youth. In olden days, children were treated as small | | | | rearing, several problems have developed. Some |
| adults and given many of the same responsibilities that | | | | young people today seem to have no respect for |
| were shouldered by their parents. Youngsters worked | | | | anything, and many are ending up in jail before their |
| side by side with their parents in the fields as soon as | | | | eighteenth birthday. Drug and alcohol abuse is running |
| they could walk. Children serving as soldiers were not | | | | rampant. As adults, many of these children find that |
| uncommon in some countries. Marriages took place | | | | they are unable to cope with "real" life. As a parent, |
| when a person was approximately twelve years of | | | | there are several ways that you can help your child to |
| age in the hopes that they could reproduce in the few | | | | grow into a successful adult. The main thing to |
| years that they had to live. Young people in these | | | | remember is that every child needs rules, and penalties |
| times were exposed to the harsh realities of life | | | | should be handed out if these guidelines are not |
| virtually from birth. Death was also an every day | | | | obeyed. This does not mean that you should physically |
| event when the average life span was approximately | | | | punish your child by any means. You can decide on an |
| forty years of age. Only one in five children survived | | | | appropriate punishment, but punishment should be |
| to adulthood, so the loss of siblings was a common | | | | given. If you establish a set of rules and do not follow |
| occurrence as well. Many parents did not live to see | | | | through with them, you could be sending your child the |
| their children grow up due to the loss of life in battle | | | | message that rules are not important. You may also |
| and childbed, and many children were raised by adults | | | | want to give your child some responsibilities around the |
| that had little or no blood connection to them. All of | | | | house. This is a good way to teach your child many of |
| these factors prohibited most children from being | | | | the housekeeping skills that they will need as adults. |
| pampered or spoiled. The daily struggle to survive | | | | Teaching your child to respect themselves and others |
| curtailed any frivolity. This is not to say that these | | | | as well as good manners is key to their continued |
| parents did not value or care about their children. Any | | | | social success. As a parent, it is your job as well as |
| child that survived infancy was considered to be a | | | | your privilege to teach your child everything that they |
| great asset and human nature dictated that these | | | | will need to know as they grow. Having a good |
| children may have been cherished dearly. Discipline | | | | parenting plan can prevent your child from ending up in |
| was also much more vigorous than it is today. Due to | | | | situations that both you and he will regret later. |
| the dangers that were present in the settings of old, | | | | Find helpful and creative ideas for parents and |
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| parents physically beat them to ensure that the rules | | | | wooden toy boxes. |
| were obeyed. In the modern world, daily survival is not | | | | |