Parents of Special Needs Children Deserve Special Work Opportunities

I was a licensed nurse and had the map of my lifeeliminate a great deal of stress that was controlling my
routed out to specifics. I had a plan in mind that includedlife, and began to experience the fulfillment of being a
goals, dreams, anticipations and expectations. No onefull-time parent to my special needs child and became
knows how quickly those things change unless youenabled to work from home to help financially support
have had the pleasure of experiencing the role ofmy family. During the past few years, I have also
being a special parent. Like many special parents outhelped others become home-based income producing
there, I was struggling, looking, and wondering how Iparents and here are some examples of questions
could continue to meet the demands of my career, allpeople have asked: • Was this transition
while caring for my child with special needs. Whileeasy? No. If you are looking for an easy way out,
being a special parent is the most important role inworking from home is most likely is not something for
your life, you also have to somehow manage a careeryou. If you don't have the persistence, patience and
and financial support. Your role is multipurpose and youare not goal-oriented, you can forget it. • Did
want to be there for your child, but your careeryou struggle? Yes, in more ways than one. •
demands a huge percentage of your time and efforts.How did you finally begin creating an income from
How can you be a special parent, cater to yourhome? It wasn't easy and began with many promising
career, provide for your family and maintain youropportunities that turned out to be less than legitimate.
sanity? If you or someone you know is parenting a• Did you have skills? Well of course I had
special needs child and trying to work outside theskills, I was a licensed nurse, but believe it or not, none
home, you know exactly what I am talking about. Sure,of those skills were needed at any of the opportunities
you can leave your child with a friend, a parent orI ran across at the time. To sum it all up, I was like
other caregiver, but when it comes down to specificsmany other parents, struggling in the 9-5 grind, looking
and your child needs you, it's much easier to stop whatfor solutions to my situation, solutions that would allow
you are doing at home than it is to face your employerme to earn an income from home, be my own boss
and deal with their scrutiny. You have to remember,and be there for my special son all while being the
unless you are the parent of a special needs child, thistype of parent I felt he, and my other children deserve.
is a situation you just about have to experience inI wanted a package deal, even if it meant changing my
order to understand or comprehend the importancefocus, rearranging my plans and struggling, I wanted to
your role plays in that child's life. I always thought ifbe there for my special child and my other children and
anyone could do it, I could. I was a struggling singlefocus on life with them. I wanted to minimize my
mom with a good head on my shoulders and aabsence from my family, gain some independence and
positive attitude. I was perfectly capable of maintainingmake this transition as smooth as it could possibly be.
a demanding career and taking care of my specialThe entire process of going from working outside the
needs son along with my other 2 children withouthome to working at home hasn't been easy. It's been a
having to change a thing. I was bound and determinedlong road full of challenges and barriers. Being the
to succeed one way or another without having toparent of a special needs child has been the major
inconvenience my career or my everyday life in anymotivating factor for me in my pursuit of working from
shape, form, or fashion. Guess what? Like many otherhome. You have to take those challenges and face
parents of special needs children, I was wrong. I had tothem head on, move those barriers and leap over
make decisions that I really didn't want to make. In thatthem; get down to business. Find something you love
process, I had to manage transitions that wereto do and turn it in to an income-producing opportunity
mind-blowing and difficult to say the least. I used myof your very own. For more information about Susan
own tactics and I compromised, I was literally at theHill and her insight on work from home, drop in and visit
end of my rope and finally, in 1998, I was able toher at Break Time Virtual Services.