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The Way of Light

The Netherlands is a country known for school called the 'Episcopal College', a
its religious, ideological and ethnical name reminiscent of its past when it was
tolerance. But what is perhaps less known an integrated part of the monastery still
is that it is also a country religiously located in the adjacent building. A few
divided into a northern part dominated by monks even taught some classes there
a culture of Calvinism and a southern until as late as the early 80s. I will
part, which is predominantly Catholic. not draw out all the petty arguments, my
Today, when people speak of 'below the naively offending inquiries into the
rivers' they refer to the Catholic reasons for certain rules and
provinces and when they talk about 'above disciplinary measurements that followed,
the rivers' they are pointing to the and the tensions between me and the
Calvinist provinces north of the school master and head teachers that
geographical border of the rivers Maas, arose. Enough to draw out a particular
Waal and Rhine, which roughly run scene, which engrained itself in my
parallel to this historical and cultural precious and unraveling awareness as a
border.When the Netherlands declared budding teenager. It was this experience,
independence from Spain in 1579 by the which was to become my sobering 'way of
Union of Utrecht and were recognized by light' while finding my way through the
the peace agreement with Spain by the dreary labyrinth of the world.Once, we
signing of the Treaty of Munster in 1648, were given back our graded Latin exam to
'the Low Lands' (as the Netherlands is review. We could take them home with us,
literally translated), did not include but had to hand them in the very next
the southern provinces. Only with the day. Of course, it came to be that I
defeat of Napoleon and the Congress of forgot to pack my papers and I
Vienna in 1815 were these provinces apologized, pledging I would bring back
included, and not until 1831 when Belgium the exam the next day. But it caused my
gained independence were the borders teacher great anger and he punished me by
constituted that comprise the Netherlands ordering me to hand copy the school's
as we know it. Culturally though, the regulations and hand them in with the
southern provinces and especially the exam the next day. Unfortunately too, I
province of Limburg (the hind leg of the was the only student who had forgotten
Dutch lion) where I grew up belonged to his exam and I suspected a personal
the Catholic sphere of influence. Even in vendetta in his harsh and unreasonable
present day the Netherlands, it makes a punishment. Now I understand his reaction
huge difference in attitude and was a typical scholastic pedagogical
perspective on life if you are from above method that must be common in the
or from below the rivers.As a child I Catholic training of a teacher, but I
slept in the attic room of our home, also resented his incompetence as a
which had 5 windows that looked like pedagogue who failed to acknowledge the
embrasures cut out in the rooftop. In the reasonable nature of the child I was.At
small distance that separated the small first I didn't, no couldn't, take his
town of Papenhoven from adjoining Obbicht response serious and in a calm manner of
to the south, I could see the church disbelief I politely replied: 'I am
belfry in the center of town rising high sorry, I will return my exam tomorrow.' I
above its surrounding, the short line of couldn't and still don't see the loss of
farms and single family houses of red returning the exam one day later, but it
brick stone and tilted tile roofs. seemed to make a huge difference for my
Looking out of a 'loophole' in my little teacher, who insisted.The next day I came
fortress in the attic, to the west I to school and handed in my exam without
looked over fields of golden grain stalks the composition, which as a result
billowing like ocean waves to a slight accumulated to a doubling of the writing
breeze. From my window I could clearly imposition for each extra day I was late.
see the river Maas cutting through the In the following lessons again it was
landscape meandering along, and at the doubled until finally I was excluded from
other bank of the river, Belgium. I lived Latin classes overall and was called into
on the narrowest stroke of land in the the principal's office to explain my
Netherlands, where Belgium and Germany behavior.The school principal, Bitsch,
squeeze the hind leg of the Dutch lion. had the posture of a saturated pig,
On the other side of our house was the adorned with a friendly neighbor's smile,
Juliana canal and only 2 or 3 miles in which I hoped to find the insight of
further to the east lay Germany, the old reason. Maybe I should have abandoned all
heartland of Charlemagne, buried in the hope the moment I entered his office and
nearby famous Dom of Aachen. Like in heard him recite a quote from the Bible.
Belgium, most people in Limburg are Of course I forgot the quote, as I also
Catholic, so are the schools, the soccer did not know the answer to his question
clubs and of course the 'fanfare', the of where in the Bible the quote was
drill band to be found in each small town located. He provided the answer for me,
in Limburg. The 'Episcopal College', my although I could not know if he was
secondary school, was located in Sittard, sincere in answering, more than I had
a border town with Germany and 5 miles been. His 'compromise' was for me to copy
from my home. Diligently for almost 6 the school regulations ten times by hand,
years, I bicycled every morning through encouraging me to be the wiser of the two
the alternating corn and grain fields, and just swallow my pride. This
meadows and small villages on my way to halfhearted attempt to reason made an
school.I never liked school very much, even weaker impression upon me than the
not even my Catholic primary school, the complete lack of it in my authoritative
Saint Joseph school. At first of course, Latin teacher Hanssen. The punishment was
I didn't think much of it, like small ridiculous from the start and I could not
children never do. The world to small submit myself to ridicule. The main
children is simply what exists conclusion I drew from this was that my
immediately around them. To the young enthusiasm for formal education
child's mind, there is no other happiness definitively cracked and it was not long
than the one that surrounds them. At after this that I would drop out of the
Catholic school we would say our prayers 'Episcopal curriculum.'Despite dropping
each morning before lessons started, and out of school, I never lost my enthusiasm
on Friday and Tuesday mornings the local for learning. However, I never lost my
priest would teach Bible classes. All skepticism for formal education and have
this constituted my childhood happiness become an autodidact by heart. I consider
in which I participated wholeheartedly learning a life-long obligation without
like all children did, even though my end in the line of Comenius' thought. I
parents were from above the rivers, and think back of my days at school now with
even though now the faithfulness of a certain bitterness for the professional
Catholicism is a strange entity to me. As pedagogues who could not recognize a
a young child I didn't give it much child's nature and instead of stimulating
reflection, nor could I. With the wisdom it to find its own path, they attempted
of hindsight, it might look cruel that it to curb and bend it to serve their own
was always Mohammed, the Moroccan kid purpose. Nevertheless, I am a warmhearted
whom the substitute teacher used to pick supporter of education for all and the
on, until one day the teacher, holding principles promoted more than 400 years
him firmly by his neck, pushing him out earlier by the Czech educational reformer
of the classroom, ended up busting his Jan Amos Comenius. Comenius was born in
head through a glass panel in the door. 1592 and brought up in Bohemia in the
Yet, I didn't think much of it. Now, of present day Czech Republic; and like I
course I recognize the scholastic methods did, Comenius suffered from incompetent
of Jesuitism, and the dominance of teachers as a child. But despite their
structured discipline in Catholicism at incompetence, he grew to love learning
my school over the Protestant's care for and proper education as the pillar of
nurturing each child's inner nature and societal reform and human progress.In a
the diversity of individual time of fierce religious conflicts,
personalities. I didn't think much of it, Comenius was the head of the Union of
even though my most profound school Brethren, the first Reformed Church in
memory has always been boredom and Europe, which followed the principles of
aloofness from the Catholic methods of the Czech reformer Jan Hus (1369-1415)
education.My parents of course did not and was brutally suppressed by the Jesuit
grow up in Limburg, but they moved there King Ferdinand of Habsburg. Despite the
when I was barely a few weeks old. They incredible hardship he would suffer in
raised me in the progressive spirit of life, from an early loss of parents, wife
northern reformers like Comenius, and children, home and experiencing the
Rousseau and Froebel, allowing me as a Habsburgian contra-Reformist suppression
young child to explore my own needs, and the cruelties of the 30-Years War
drives, feelings and thoughts and form my between the Catholic League and the
own personality freely and spontaneously. Protestant German princes, Comenius was
The only limitations I faced were the able to find his way out of the
limitations of common reason, which were 'Labyrinth of the World' and regain the
without exception explained to me 'Paradise of the Heart'. His book of that
rationally after which it was left to me title would become a classic in European
to decide on my actions AND bear the literature, while Comenius himself grew
consequences that resulted from them. to become one of the most celebrated
This of course was the worst preparation educational reformers in history. He
for attending a Catholic school one can advocated reforming the old medieval
imagine, with its more rigorous scholastic method and introducing a more
perception of social hierarchy and child-friendly method of education, which
educational method. Yet, alternatives to in our time has become so evident.Being a
attend other schools are scarce in refugee most of his life, Comenius was
Limburg unless you are able and willing finally settled in tolerant Amsterdam in
to travel more than an hour daily to 1556 until he died in 1570. He now lies
reach one of the few Montessori schools buried in the Wallonian Church in
in the south. Thus, my parents being Naarden, the Netherlands, a place of
pragmatic and practical people, I pilgrimage for many Czechs, to whom
completed Saint Joseph's elementary Comenius is one of their biggest national
school and entered a Catholic secondary heroes.




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