Teaching Your Children Manners

Manners are something that most people learned at amentally or physically. Your child should learn not to
young age and remained with them the rest of theirstare at a disabled individual or to ask them
lives. You can begin teaching a child manners as soonembarrassing questions, although most disabled people
as he is old enough to understand you. One of the firstwill usually appreciate the fact that your child is young
things that most parents teach their young children is toand answer any questions as best they can. You
say "please" and "thank you." You can also teachshould teach your child to show the same respect to
them to say "you're welcome" when someone thanksthese individuals as they do to everyone else. A child
them. You should explain that all these phrases displayshould also be taught to greet anyone who visits your
respect and appreciation. Not interrupting when otherhouse. You should explain to them that by greeting
people are speaking is also something that mostpeople, this makes the guest feel welcomed and
parents teach children at a very young age. Youcomfortable in your home. Cleaning up after himself
should explain to the child that no one can understandwhether at home or at a friend's house is is an early
what is being said if too many people are talking at thestep to teaching a child to take responsibility. You
same time. You should also explain that he shouldshould explain to a child that it is polite to clean up any
quietly wait his turn. You can place your arm aroundmess before you leave someone's house as well as
the child to assure him that you are aware that he isyour own. It also shows respect for the person's
being patient. When it is the child's turn to speak, payhouse. You should also teach your child to be a good
attention to what he is saying. Point out that notsport. If he wins a game, tell him to encourage the child
interrupting is a way of showing respect to the personwho lost, while if he loses then he should congratulate
who is speaking and shows an interest in what theythe winner and not sulk over it. Stress the fact that 'it is
are saying. Other good manners that you can teachonly a game." Manners are an important tool for
your child include the rule of no name calling. Explain tochildren to have as they grow into adults. Teaching
your child that even if it is meant in fun, name calling isyour child to respect other people and their feelings is
disrespectful and can hurt the other person's feelings.a key element that will allow your child to grow into a
Reinforce the idea that your child should not make funwarm and caring adult.
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