| Anthony Kane, MD
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| | caretakers, who provide for the child's
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| One of the most powerful tools that
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| | physical needs with as little warmth and
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| parents have for raising their children
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| | contact as possible, often raise
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| is the natural emotional bond that exists
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| | children. Also, many of us did not
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| between them and their child. Children
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| | receive enough physical love and warmth
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| who feel close to their parents will have
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| | as children. As a result, it is not
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| a strong desire to obey them. No child
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| | natural to us to cuddle, coo, kiss, and
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| with this type of connection to his
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| | love our children affectionately. In
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| parents will want to risk hurting that
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| | addition, some children naturally need
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| connection by disobeying them. When such
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| | more physical warmth. These
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| a relationship exists, the mere look of
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| | touch-deprived children fill our schools.
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| dissatisfaction on the face of a parent
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| | They are the ones who often look sad and
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| will usually be enough to curb
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| | depressed, suffering from not getting
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| inappropriate behavior. This bond is so
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| | their physical needs for contact.
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| strong and so potent that it lasts even
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| | The United States is one of the richest
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| through adolescence when most of the
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| | countries in the history of the world.
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| disciplinary tools at our disposal are
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| | Yet, our children in general are touch
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| ineffective. Often, it is the only tool
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| | starved. We are busy with our lives and
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| we have in guiding our teenage children.
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| | our careers. We often raise our children
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| Parents who do not have such a connection
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| | in broken homes. We as parents are
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| with their children have lost a vital
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| | suffering under the burden of so much
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| resource necessary for successful
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| | physical and emotional stress, that we
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| parenting.
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| | are often just glad to make it through
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| In addition, this bond is essential for
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| | the day without hitting or screaming at
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| the child's emotional stability. A
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| | our children. Who has time to give them
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| recent psychology experiment studied
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| | affection? Yet, this is what our
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| people in their forties, whose parent
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| | children crave most from us. We fill our
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| were emotionally distant from them.
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| | houses with toys and things for our
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| These people were often depressed and
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| | children, but it is us that they really
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| lacked a sense of emotional well being.
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| | need.
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| They had more difficulty in adjusting to
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| | There is much talk about the generation
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| the work environment and new social
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| | gap. We all know that adolescents
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| situations.
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| | naturally rebel. Sometimes we look at
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| How do you develop this type of loving
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| | our little children and wonder what is
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| bond with your child? It begins in your
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| | going to be in ten years when this cute
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| child's infancy and is built by giving
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| | little four-year-old turns fourteen.
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| your child the love and affection that he
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| | Will he be one of the children who abuses
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| needs.
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| | drugs? Is he going to steal? Is he
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| Many well-meaning mothers are completely
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| | going to do worse? What is going to be?
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| unaware that their own children are
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| | You need to take the time now, and give
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| suffering from the lack of physical
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| | your child the physical warmth and love
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| touch. There are many reasons for this.
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| | that your child needs. If you build
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| Most people associate deprived children
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| | strong bonds of love with your child now,
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| as those who are neglected, abused, or
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| | while he is still young, then all these
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| chronically ill. However, the truth is
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| | problems that you read about, will be
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| that many of our children who come from
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| | just that; things that you read about.
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| good homes are not getting the physical
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| | You will not experience these problems in
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| warmth and love that they need. In our
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| | your own home, because you have developed
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| two-income society, unaffectionate
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| | a strong relationship with you child.
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