Family Advocacy - Part One

Who Was Jean Piaget?Jean Piaget was to cognitive1990). There remains a strong misconception that
development as Albert Einstein was to physics. In factmentally ill parents are violent and are therefore at an
Einstein was afan of Piaget's work. Jean Piaget wasincreased risk for abusing their children. While this may
born in Switzerland on Aug. 9, 1896. He published hisbe true for alcohol and drug abusers, it is not true for
first scientific paper at the age of 10. By the age of 22parents with psychiatric disorders getting treatment.Still,
he already had a doctorate in zoology. He becamefor these reasons many people are afraid of getting
interested in psychoanalysis after WWII and attendedthe help that they need. They are afraid their
lectures given by Carl Jung. He then studied in Parissymptoms may give the impression that they would
working in Alfred Binet's child psychology lab. It wasbe an unfit parent. If they are seen as unfit they could
there that he first began to notice that children of thelose their children. Therefore families may not receive
same ages answered true/false questions similarly.Hethe services they need to raise healthy children. Thus
returned to Switzerland and spent many yearsa vicious cycle begins.Warning SignsThe following is a
studying and conversing with children. He realizedlist of symptoms that could indicate that children are
through his conversations that when asked a questionnot dealing well with a parent's mental illness. Mind you,
a child did not necessarily give an incorrect answerthese are also signs for other causes such as trouble
just because the answer wasn't an adult response.in school, peer pressure, sexual problems, abuse,
They instead gave logical answers based on therelationship problems, substance abuse, a change in
knowledge that they had within them. He concludedcircumstances at home and a host of other issues. Still,
that if adults try to teach children to quickly that itI felt they were worth mentioning. If you notice any of
prevents them from reinventing it themselves, thusthese things in your children over a continual period for
making it their own.His career spanned nearly 75 years3-4 weeks, please seek help for them. Never turn a
and he is credited with developing several new fieldsblind eye and think that the problem will solve
of science including developmental psychology,itself.*moodiness
cognitive theory and what later became genetic*bad temper or irritability
epistemology. Without him, some of today's modern*crying a lot
methods would have never come about. Many of his*sleeping problems
theories are still the basis for modern child*lying
development including the "Theory of Knowledge*not talking to people or going out with friends
Construction." This theory is based upon the principle*eating more or less than usual or skipping meals
that when a child comes into contact with a new piece*giving up hobbies
of information, his mind must understand it in a way*arguing
that fits his current view of the world. If it doesn't fit the*feeling lazy, bored or tired
mold then the child will re-construct their knowledge so*stealing or getting into trouble
they can assimilate the new information. It is much like*not looking after themselves (hygiene)
constructing a building - you cannot start with the top,*low self-esteem
you must build the foundation first and then develop up*acting recklessly
from the base.Four Stages of Cognitive Development*drinking alcohol or using drugs
in ChildrenLet's take a minute to get a feel for Piaget's*skipping school
4 stages of cognitive development in children.*preferring to be aloneHow Children are Affected -
Remember, he spent most of his life studying andRisk or Resilience?As seen above in Jean Piaget's
interacting with children and I think his theory makes a"Theory of Knowledge Construction," children are only
lot of sense.Stage I: Sensorimotor (Infancy)Infants learncapable of understanding things if they have the
about the world around them through sensation andknowledge from the preceding level of development.
movement. The focus at this stage is on motor andAt each level they can be affected either adversely or
reflex actions. They take a great interest in the facespositively by their interactions with their parents -
and voices of caretakers. Parents can aid in theirregardless if the parent has a mental illness or not. The
development by making faces, talking and singing tochallenge here is the capability of mentally ill parents to
their little ones.Stage II: Preoperation (Toddler & Earlyprovide what is needed at each stage. (This is where
Childhood)This stage's main focus on the child'syou want to go back and re-read the section on the 4
intellectual development is language and using symbolsstages of cognitive development.) It is up to us as
(e.g. words and pictures). The child will act intuitively atparents to provide them what is needed and as a
this stage. They have active imaginations and vividmentally ill parent that becomes quite a challenge.Now,
fantasies. It is not uncommon for the child to personifyresearch clearly indicates that parental mental illness
objects, thus giving toys and dolls human like qualities.increases the risk of the child developing emotional or
Parents should take the time to help them learnbehavior problems. (I'm leaving out genetics here since
language and promote their imaginations ,as well asit is a different issue.) Children with the most serious
pay attention to how they play with objects.Stage III:emotional disturbances, served by systems of care
Concrete Operation(Elementary & Earlyacross the U.S., report high rates of parental mental
AdolescenceDuring this stage children start to processillness, psychiatric hospitalizations and substance abuse
abstract concepts such as numbers and relationships.(Comprehensive Community Mental Health Services
Before a child could only manipulate things physically.for Children and their Families Program, Annual Report
Now they begin to be able to manipulate themto Congress, 1998). This report shows nothing of the
mentally as well. To do this they need concreterelationship between the age of a child and their
examples or they will notexposure to parental mental illness. Some feel that if
understand the concept. A child's development shouldchildren are exposed repeatedly at a young age their
focus on giving concrete examples of ideas.Stage IV:risk is higher. However, some studies have failed to
Formal Operation (Adolescence & Earlyfind conclusive results regarding age or developmental
Adulthood)This is the stage where children begin tostages in regards to their level of risk (Oyserman et al.;
reason logically and analytically without needingWeissman, 1989).Stressors outside of the family
concrete examples as before. Children are nowdetrimentally affect children of parents with a mental
capable of hypothetical and deductive reasoning.illness. Stressful issues that increase the likelihood of
Encouraging young people to consider multipleemotional or behavioral problems are minority status,
possibilities will help their development at this stage.Alllow levels of education, stigma, single parenthood,
of these stages represent areas of opportunity or risksocial isolation and poverty (Biedel & Turner, 1997;
of failure when it comes to helping your child getHammen et al., 1987; Harnish et al., 1995; Sameroff &
through the world. This task is tough enough for twoSeifer, 1983). These types of issues are difficult at best
parents who are normal by societies standards. Throwfor a child to cope with but when you add in a mentally
in a parent who suffers from a mental illness and youill parent the problem is simply compounded
face a much greater challenge. This is the reason Imassively.The gender of the child also appears to play
started with the 4 stages of development - so thata roll in how they react to a parent's illness, although
parents could see areas that they could reach out tothere is conflicting evidence in how exactly. Some
their children in an appropriate way and affect them instudies show that girls are more adversely affected
a positive manner.Some General Statistics~*~Almost 1and some feel that it is boys who have a worse time
3 of American women and 1/5 of American mencoping. Studies have shown, however, that girls are
provide evidence of psychiatric disorder in the past 12more prone to develop depression and boys are more
months. Of these women, 65% are mothers; 52% arelikely to exhibit conduct problems (Cummings & Davies,
fathers.~*~Women and men with mental illness are at1994).It is well documented that children with greater
least as likely, if not more likely, than those withoutintelligence, better social skills and stronger cognitive
psychiatric disorder to become parents.~*~Theprocesses have been shown to be more resilient to
majority of adults falling into psychiatric diagnostictheir parental mental illness (Beardslee & Podorefsky,
categories (affective disorders,anxiety disorders,1988; Radke-Yarrow & Sherman, 1990.) Cognitive skills
PTSD, psychotic disorders, etc.) are parents.~*~1 in 4such as a positive and coherent self-concept, a
American families are affected by parental mentalpositive attribution style, effective coping and problem
illness.Why Parents Don't Seek HelpOne of the biggestsolving abilities have been associated with positive
reasons that adults don't seek assistance for theiroutcomes among children in general and specifically
mental problems is due to the stigma that is stillamong children with depressed mothers (Beardslee &
attached to having a mental illness. Unfortunately manyPodorefsky, 1988; Downey & Walker, 1989;
people still do not view mental illnesses as a medicalRadke-Yarrow et al., 1995)Terry J. Coyier is a
problem but as a personal flaw or weakness in the37-year-old college student studying for an Associates
person. You still hear the mentally ill referred to asof Applied Sciences degree. She is also a freelance
"crazy," "loony," "nuts," "psycho," or even worsewriter who writes about bipolar disorder and other
terms.One of the other reasons for not seekingmental illnesses. Terry was diagnosed with bipolar ten
treatment is that mental illness is the primary reasonyears ago. She lives with her son in the Dallas/Ft.
for custodial challenge. Some studies have reported asWorth Metroplex. Terry is an author on which is a site
many as 70-80% of parents with a mental illness havefor Writers and her personal portfolio can be viewed
lost custody of their children due to their illness (Burton,here.