How to Raise Your Kids in a Balanced Way

Although many everyone has their own differentaround better atmosphere. There is flexibility in
styles of parenting, there are 4 main styles ofauthoritative parenting that allows the parent to bend
parenting. These four different styles are authoritarian,the rules on occasion. Like if a child would like to stay
authoritative, permissive, and than uninvolved.up late to watch a favorite TV show.
Uninvolved parenting is really just a lack of parenting. ItAuthoritative parents also are responsive. Children
is hard on children and should not be the way ofhave a voice in the family and the input is value. Mom
parenting. Kids suffer issues such as feelings ofand dad respond to their children's needs and problems
rejection, lack of self esteem, and issues with trust. Inand are sensitive to their children's emotions and
the long run the children are harmed emotionally.feelings.
Authoritarian, authoritative, and permissive stylesIn authoritative parenting, decisions are made
describe a range of styles. Authoritarian parents are atcollaboratively. Children have a choice, but only up to a
one end of the spectrum. This kind of parenting tendscertain point. Parents should listen to their input, and
to be high in structure and low in responsiveness.take into consideration what the child is saying, and
Permissive parents are then located at the oppositefeeling, but the final decision lies with the parents.
side of the scale. This parenting style tends to be lowThese types of families function as a team, and
in structure and high in responsiveness. Authoritativedifferent needs are accommodated for. This results in
parenting tends to be located in the middle of theless conflict and more balance.
scale, and is a balanced parenting style. There areAuthoritative parenting is a balanced parenting style.
many different parenting styles out there; these threeStructure and responsive are both high. The parents
represent a very wide range scale.are involved with their child's life, and are flexible, but
Structure is important to authoritative parenting. Therethey still are parents. There are structures, limits, rules
are clear rules and limits and children know that thereand boundaries, but they are not rigid. Children with this
are consequences for their actions. Routines andkind of parenting tend to do well socially and
schedules help provide a sense of stability for children.functionally in life. They tend to not get into problems
For example, a child knows when bedtime is, and aand not to have serious emotional problems. This type
teen knows when curfew is, and both know what willof parenting is balanced, and produces balanced
happen if he or she is late. Stability in this sense allowschildren.
children to feel secure, and that, it turn, allows for an all